Note: These are notes Iām writing to myself as a reminder and lesson on how to live my best life possible - my life philosophy. Only sharing because others have asked to see.
These are lessons Iāve learned from experience, reflection, my family, other great people Iāve been lucky to be around, great books, and wisdom of the ages.
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Think of this less as a full explanation and more as lessons summarizing concepts Iāve found really powerful in my life.
Also I aspire to do everything listed here š
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šŖĀ Health
Health is the most important thing in life.
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At any point in life the top 2 things that determine your happiness are:
- Your health
- Your close relationships (partner, family, friends)
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One of the biggest joys in life is feeling great!
Ronaldo: āThere are no secrets in life. There is just hard work.ā
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Being ultra healthy is very simple.
Just do the basics.
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Live like a baby!
When they are tired they sleep, when they are hungry they eat.
Listen to your body!
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šĀ The Foundation
Percentages show the importance out of a 100% whole healthy life.
1. [40%] Mindset
- Calm, happy, positive
- Think of the outcome you want and believe in it 1000%
- Mediate 2x 20m daily
- Laugh a lot!
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2. [40%] Sleep
- 10 hours daily
- Same time daily (consistency key!)
- 1hr before midnight = 2 after (greatest athletes sleep ~8:30)
- Dark, cool room
- Cut out light 1hr before bed (orange glasses, red lights, no screens)
- 15m sunlight in am
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3. [7%] Nutrition
- Whole foods (plants & animals, nothing processed, ingredients plants not chemicals)
- High quality ingredients (organic, good quality meats)
- No sugar (fruit is healthy)
- Concretely: No bread / pasta (is processed), no seed oils (mainly chemicals), cook donāt eat out
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4. [5%] Exercise
- 1h daily min. Ideally 2.
- Stretch, lift, cardio
- Workout am ideally (def happen & feel great all day)
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5. [5%] Relationships
- Happy, harmonious relationship with life partner
- Same with family and friends
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6. [2%] Water
- 1 gallon / day min. Aim for 2.
- Pure, good quality water (No TAP WATER!!!)
- Continue no caffeine (since 9th grade), no sugar drinks (including fruit juice - veggie only juice is good).
- Eliminate alcohol
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7. [<1%] Everything Else
- Stuff above WAY more important, focus on mastering that first
- Supplements (hereās what I take)
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In case of limited time, prioritize as listed. Ex: sleep instead of working out.
Exception - make sure you drink water.
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Do this and you will feel like a warrior!!! šŖ
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Message me with your suggestions!
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You got this!!!
I believe in you!!! šŖšš¤©
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With lots of love ā¤ļø,
Nikil
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Bonus: Things I Have Found Helpful
Some more details on how to implement. Think of this as a reference.
Mindset
- 10m daily morning priming
- Some mornings you wake up happy, some stressed. I do this and EVERY single day I start out feeling great!
- Done basically every day since 2016. (Missed < 10 days in 9 years!!)
- From Tony Robbins
- Structure
- 3 x 30 reps: Ujjayi breaths (hands up, exhale loudly and pull hands down, inhale hands up)
- 3 x 1m: gratitude visualization
- 1.5m: self healing visualization
- 1.5m: family, friends, world healing visualization
- 3 x 1m: goal visualization
- Audio file I made that has the music with sections marked by birds chirping
- Surround yourself with happy positive people who laugh a lot
- Listen to audible books on thinking positive
- Watch inspirational YouTube videos (example) (todo: link to playlist)
- Read biographies of incredible people (great ones: Phil Knight - Nike, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Will Smith) (todo: link to book rec list)
- Watch standup comedy
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Sleep
- Fully black out room
- Blackout all windows (TODO: add pic of room?)
- Black all lights switches / appliance LEDs
- No lights at night
- No lights at night. Get ready in dark
- If you need lights, get hue lights, put on red, from the floor
- Orange glasses for 30m before (ideally 1hr)
- Sound
- Get a noisy box fan - will block out all sound
- Temp
- Keep it cold (~68 degrees)
- Mattress chilling pad helps
- Mattress
- Iām currently sleeping on the floor on a ~1 inch thick pad (no mattress). When I moved to my spot furniture didnāt get delivered and I slept directly on the hardwood floor - actually felt good so seeing if this is better for posture. Will let you know.
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Nutrition
- Batch cook meals at once for 3 days (can get someone do do for ~$30/hr)
- Instacart from Whole Foods, get meat yourself bc it spoils when out for hours
- Whole ingredients - skip foods that have additives / sugars / chemicals
- Ingredients label should look like: āchicken, saltā NOT ā6-phytophenolalanine, chicken flavoringā
- Get organic, pasture raised, wild caught
- Lots of vegetables
- Nothing with sugar
- For lifting aim for 1g / protein per pound of bodyweight
- To get lean, hereās the simple rule: no processed carbs (bread, pasta, tortilla) & no sugar.
- Good snack foods: sardines, organic nuts, bone broth
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Exercise
- Key Principles
- 1 hour exercise daily
- Just get in the gym, any program is fine. Can use mine. The actual exercises you do donāt matter as much. What matters is showing up & consistency.
- Keep the streak
- NO PHONE AT GYM!!!
- Donāt take it in to the gym
- Gamechanger for me: got an mp3 player for music without phone (later switched to Apple Watch bc was easier music experience but no notifications or apps)
- More thoughts
- Lift daily
- Go till muscle exhaustion
- Trainer can help a lot making sure you get good form.
- Hevy app great to track workouts with friends
- 10m abs daily (this girl has hardest videos Iāve found)
- 10m stretch before workout (yoga is good! down dog app is for custom time yoga + variety)
- Ideally 10m cardio warmup first
- Cold plunge is great - do in morning and before workout not after
- Swimming is great - high exertion vs time, good for body, even better workout if youāre bad at swimming
- My routine
- Rough daily 1hr structure
- 10m cardio
- 10m stretch
- 10m abs
- 30m lift
- On ideal days I add:
- 10m sauna and stretch
- 3m cold plunge
- 20m swim
- 5m stretches for posture
- 5m glutes
- My lifting body part split:
- M: chest / triceps
- T: back / biceps / shoulders
- W: legs
- Th: chest / triceps
- F: back / biceps / shoulders
- S: legs
- Su: arms (whatever needs help)
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Relationships
- Having great relationships with everyone super key
- Be happy, be nice, let stuff go, talk through any emotional stress IMMEDIATELY
- Rule of life - only do any convo involving emotions in person. On phone if must. NEVER on text.
- Will be a whole separate post
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Water
- Key: have it easily accessible
- Carry a gallon jug
- Measure - youāre prob drinking way less than you think
- Glass is best to avoid plastic
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Everything Else
- Everyone overweights this category, stuff above is 99% of it
- Try the natural version of everything first
- Sauna / cold plunge good
- Supplements can help
- Massage gun can help
- Massages good
- Tons of other things that are good also: Red flight therapy, acupuncture, etcā¦
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